tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8552682727548828725.post5635078340032582185..comments2023-10-17T05:01:42.650-04:00Comments on Abandoning Eden: I am SUCH a girl!Abandoning Edenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12696116071749613265noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8552682727548828725.post-54340598888702127112008-07-10T13:59:00.000-04:002008-07-10T13:59:00.000-04:00Mazal Tov!The garden looks beautiful, but since yo...Mazal Tov!<BR/><BR/>The garden looks beautiful, but since you've indicated in the past that you're strapped for cash, how about a friend's backyard and some potluck food?<BR/><BR/>I agree with LNM. B sounds like much more of a stand-up guy, and your real soulmate, rather than your ex.David Staumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04092344925121412070noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8552682727548828725.post-57037650324204504672008-07-10T11:07:00.000-04:002008-07-10T11:07:00.000-04:00Wow! Congrats!That garden looks SO beautiful.Wow! Congrats!<BR/><BR/>That garden looks SO beautiful.On Her Ownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01894266892388028703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8552682727548828725.post-30209469069717482422008-07-09T06:37:00.000-04:002008-07-09T06:37:00.000-04:00I agree with Ms Moon and lubab.Good luck with the ...I agree with Ms Moon and lubab.<BR/>Good luck with the wedding planning, however you decide to do it.<BR/><BR/>Oh, and the garden place looks really nice!Jewish Sceptichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11262751671021588424noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8552682727548828725.post-3923420954061691322008-07-08T13:08:00.000-04:002008-07-08T13:08:00.000-04:00> It's like years of socialization have taken over...> It's like years of socialization have taken over my brain.<BR/><BR/>It might be your nature talking, not your nurture. <BR/><BR/><BR/>> what If I plan this whole wedding (and plan it myself this time!) and then we end up breaking up?<BR/><BR/>Don't sweat it. Your last situation was a little messed up and it sounds like the guy wasn't really ready (<I>my ex, who wanted to keep all the money</I>). B. sounds like a totally cool guy who you are (clearly) madly in love with. Sounds like everything about about you two is just right. I think you'll do fine.Lubab No Morehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15853466344401477725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8552682727548828725.post-57119101670535858332008-07-08T11:11:00.000-04:002008-07-08T11:11:00.000-04:00I know i'm freaking out! last night mid-freak out...I know i'm freaking out! last night mid-freak out I took a step back and was like "wow brett, I am freaking out about wedding planning stuff right now!" and we laughed about how crazy I am. :)<BR/><BR/>I do want to get married in front of the people we love. I like the idea of vowing to be together in front of close friends and family in a beautiful place, like publically declaring your love and all...<BR/><BR/>we decided to get married about 2 months ago, but the freak out didn't hit until now for some reason :)Abandoning Edenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12696116071749613265noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8552682727548828725.post-32657677603626402292008-07-08T09:56:00.000-04:002008-07-08T09:56:00.000-04:00Do you hear yourself? You have barely decided to g...Do you hear yourself? You have barely decided to get married and you are freaking OUT about the wedding.<BR/>Listen to your heart. Perhaps it would be best for you and B to go off somewhere alone, look into each other's eyes and say the words you want to say to each other.<BR/>Calm, peaceful, loving.<BR/>I think that weddings are all about culture and have very little to do with love.<BR/>Whatever you decide to do, remember that it's about you and B and your love for each other. <BR/>Really, that's it. All that other stuff is just....stuff.Ms. Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.com