tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8552682727548828725.post8340152236643667159..comments2023-10-17T05:01:42.650-04:00Comments on Abandoning Eden: well in the endAbandoning Edenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12696116071749613265noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8552682727548828725.post-21421319506439407302008-03-12T09:15:00.000-04:002008-03-12T09:15:00.000-04:00Catching this a little late, but you sound really ...Catching this a little late, but you sound really conflicted about your relationship with your parents. My mother struggled a lot with similar feelings (her mother was a severely depressed Holocaust survivor, so it was a bit different). <BR/><BR/>If you haven't done therapy yet, I strongly urge you to, with the goal of coming to a peaceful place where you can accept them and your relationship with them, even if it's not perfect and even if they still have difficulty accepting you and B. <BR/><BR/>It took my mother two years, but in the end, she was able to call her parents once a week and make regular visits, without feeling angry and resentful (feelings that come through very strongly in your post).Commenter Abbihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07753256568022159103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8552682727548828725.post-867471320137065772008-02-25T11:17:00.000-05:002008-02-25T11:17:00.000-05:00nope, we couldn't work out a time to meet, cause m...nope, we couldn't work out a time to meet, cause my brother's job has him working till 11pm apparently. But i'm sure they'll come down to my place and visit soon..my brother has met B several times already. :)Abandoning Edenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12696116071749613265noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8552682727548828725.post-78356161496506772852008-02-25T11:13:00.000-05:002008-02-25T11:13:00.000-05:00Did you & B at least get to have dinner with your ...Did you & B at least get to have dinner with your brother & his girlfiend like you planned?Yehudi Hilchatihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06908923539770687179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8552682727548828725.post-23778635176865823642008-02-25T10:36:00.000-05:002008-02-25T10:36:00.000-05:00so sad. BTW, shequia last week in NY was 5:38so sad. <BR/><BR/>BTW, shequia last week in NY was 5:38littlefoxlingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01309962988376540455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8552682727548828725.post-8341826667696952502008-02-24T23:56:00.000-05:002008-02-24T23:56:00.000-05:00I don't know your dad. But maybe the reason he did...I don't know your dad. But maybe the reason he did not come is that he thought that you might spring B on him. <BR/><BR/>And in the end, the only way to get your parents to accept him (or tell you to F off once and for all) is to spring B on them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8552682727548828725.post-43477923240465821302008-02-24T11:14:00.000-05:002008-02-24T11:14:00.000-05:00yep i friended you :lol:yep i friended you :lol:Abandoning Edenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12696116071749613265noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8552682727548828725.post-62059181235414490862008-02-24T09:36:00.000-05:002008-02-24T09:36:00.000-05:00Hey your supposed to friend me on facebook- yes it...Hey your supposed to friend me on facebook- yes it is my blog name and yes your identity will be secret.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com